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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 11:33:18 GMT -1
a mature person would choice one of the two people. really? You love two people equally and yet are able to make a choice? Doesn't sound equal to me. no someone else loved me and another, and was immature, so i had to make the choice
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Post by Fizzy Bread on Jul 18, 2007 11:34:25 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing.
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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 11:34:56 GMT -1
no someone else loved me and another, and was immature, so i had to make the choice was your response - "Skank, begone from my sight! Get thee to a Nunnery!" ;D
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:35:02 GMT -1
really? I'd start classifying cheating well before that Would that be at the flash of an ankle? Now now H. I'm not really sure where it starts, I can't quantify it. But I'm intrigued as to what other people think. It can't be intercourse etc for me because there's just no way that that would happen casually for me. So cheating would start a lot lower down the 'familiarity scale'.
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Post by thales on Jul 18, 2007 11:35:15 GMT -1
cheaters.... ah, I thought you were saying everyone has or would though was saying majority have cheated (as shippers describes it) and do tend to stay that way!
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 11:36:00 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing. agreed. actually had this conversation with a (sexy) barmaid a year back and we both thought similar.
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:36:19 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing. roaming hands doing what? I'd say kissing is properly over the line
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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 11:36:51 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing. You mean petting... of the lightish variety... I presume. I concur... but I'd be more likely to forgive someone for a snog or a fumble than full intercourse or oral sex. Hence I see where Laura is coming from too. That said, the milder stuff is probably "indicative"
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 11:37:08 GMT -1
Would that be at the flash of an ankle? Now now H. I'm not really sure where it starts, I can't quantify it. But I'm intrigued as to what other people think. It can't be intercourse etc for me because there's just no way that that would happen casually for me. So cheating would start a lot lower down the 'familiarity scale'. I'm just not sure that kissing is enough to constitute "cheating". I could forgive someone a drunken snog, I wouldnt be happy but I wouldn't think I'd been cheated on.
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:37:10 GMT -1
ah, I thought you were saying everyone has or would though was saying majority have cheated (as shippers describes it) and do tend to stay that way! what?!? how am I being referenced in this post?
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 11:37:25 GMT -1
no someone else loved me and another, and was immature, so i had to make the choice was your response - "Skank, begone from my sight! Get thee to a Nunnery!" ;D hmmmm. not quite. but i real wish not to tell the story - not a happy one.
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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 11:38:03 GMT -1
was saying majority have cheated (as shippers describes it) and do tend to stay that way! the majority of people are bad people then? doesn't look like many here have cheated, unless there's a lot of lying going on?
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:38:18 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing. You mean petting... of the lightish variety... I presume. I concur... but I'd be more likely to forgive someone for a snog or a fumble than full intercourse or oral sex. Hence I see where Laura is coming from too. That said, the milder stuff is probably "indicative" once it's "indicative" does it really matter what the physical action was?
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Post by thales on Jul 18, 2007 11:38:20 GMT -1
Now now H. I'm not really sure where it starts, I can't quantify it. But I'm intrigued as to what other people think. It can't be intercourse etc for me because there's just no way that that would happen casually for me. So cheating would start a lot lower down the 'familiarity scale'. I'm just not sure that kissing is enough to constitute "cheating". I could forgive someone a drunken snog, I wouldnt be happy but I wouldn't think I'd been cheated on. then why would you need to forgive them?
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Post by Fizzy Bread on Jul 18, 2007 11:38:23 GMT -1
Kissing.. Physical contactness, like.. deliberate roaming of hands...? I dunno really, I guess that's down to personal opinion but kissing. roaming hands doing what? I'd say kissing is properly over the line Roaming hands on someone else's body? As Jules said 'petting' I guess.. I dunno.. Same, spose it's down to the individual where the line is though and it must vary from person to person.
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Post by thales on Jul 18, 2007 11:39:02 GMT -1
was saying majority have cheated (as shippers describes it) and do tend to stay that way! what?!? how am I being referenced in this post? your definition of cheating as opposed to mrsh's!
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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 11:39:04 GMT -1
hmmmm. not quite. but i real wish not to tell the story - not a happy one. Poor Dave *Man hug*
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:40:05 GMT -1
Now now H. I'm not really sure where it starts, I can't quantify it. But I'm intrigued as to what other people think. It can't be intercourse etc for me because there's just no way that that would happen casually for me. So cheating would start a lot lower down the 'familiarity scale'. I'm just not sure that kissing is enough to constitute "cheating". I could forgive someone a drunken snog, I wouldnt be happy but I wouldn't think I'd been cheated on. Ok - so say Mr H hypothetically knows this girl and they get on really well and a relationship begins to look on the cards, and their affection for each other is evident but no physical action happens - not cheating?
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Post by thales on Jul 18, 2007 11:40:21 GMT -1
was saying majority have cheated (as shippers describes it) and do tend to stay that way! the majority of people are bad people then? doesn't look like many here have cheated, unless there's a lot of lying going on? think it's called singledom
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 11:40:23 GMT -1
hmmmm. not quite. but i real wish not to tell the story - not a happy one. Poor Dave *Man hug* *hug*
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