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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 10:53:22 GMT -1
Like my best mate cheated on his ex a couple of times towards the end, but that was because the relationship was going up the creek. Now I know he shouldn't have done it, and should have had the balls to end his relationship before he went off with other lasses, and he knows that too, but I also know that he wouldn't do it in a relationship that he felt was going to last. *sharp intake of breath* yeah like I said - motive and opportunity well I suppose given people generally do shag first and ask questions later (neutral on this issue for obvious reasons!) it's not unsurprising...
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Post by Billy on Jul 18, 2007 10:53:35 GMT -1
well they're certainly no leopard that's for sure........... taxi! if they were they'd have bad cramp by now. Cheers Ships - I knew I could rely on you ;D
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 10:54:18 GMT -1
that's not what I meant. Like my best mate cheated on his ex a couple of times towards the end, but that was because the relationship was going up the creek. Now I know he shouldn't have done it, and should have had the balls to end his relationship before he went off with other lasses, and he knows that too, but I also know that he wouldn't do it in a relationship that he felt was going to last. I was adding another 'bullet point' to the argument as oppose to continuing yours.. sorry - I thought it was something else.
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Post by Ninja Squirrel on Jul 18, 2007 10:54:19 GMT -1
True like the old saying goes all men are bastards Ahh that's not true. A good majority maybe.. I am and I know I am but I'm good with it I don't do anything too bastardy
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 10:54:20 GMT -1
A common saying among women these days are all blokes untrustworthy? No, it wasn't just that some blokes were.. are untrustworthy, I just had trust issues - I had the issue, not the fella but sometimes with good reason. i have trust issues with women....
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 10:55:27 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again.
Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would?
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 10:55:47 GMT -1
if they were they'd have bad cramp by now. Cheers Ships - I knew I could rely on you ;D you tee them up lad, I'll ram them home.
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Post by Ninja Squirrel on Jul 18, 2007 10:56:09 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? Is it only cheating if you get caught?
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 10:56:34 GMT -1
No, it wasn't just that some blokes were.. are untrustworthy, I just had trust issues - I had the issue, not the fella but sometimes with good reason. i have trust issues with women.... Do they keep stealing your things for drugs?
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 10:57:38 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? Is it only cheating if you get caught? That's very Zen of you Ninj but yes I think it is still cheating!
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 10:58:06 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? Is there a 'type' of person that would? I don't think there is. Somehow I think everyone is capable of things they don't agree with at some point.
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 10:58:08 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? since i'm sans girlfriend it's kinda pointless me answering, but definately not...
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 10:58:48 GMT -1
Is it only cheating if you get caught? That's very Zen of you Ninj but yes I think it is still cheating! that's only if it's in the forrest.
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Post by Ninja Squirrel on Jul 18, 2007 10:58:52 GMT -1
Is it only cheating if you get caught? That's very Zen of you Ninj but yes I think it is still cheating! Thank you my Ying and Yang are in perfect balance
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Post by mortontheblade on Jul 18, 2007 10:59:06 GMT -1
i have trust issues with women.... Do they keep stealing your things for drugs? no
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Post by jh1980 on Jul 18, 2007 10:59:30 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? I know if I cheated on someone the guilt would eat me up until I confessed - at which point the relationship would be over anyway. I wouldn't expect forgiveness, and I wouldn't give forgiveness.
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 11:00:36 GMT -1
That's very Zen of you Ninj but yes I think it is still cheating! that's only if it's in the forrest. So you can cheat in a forrest and no-one will know?
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:02:01 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? I know if I cheated on someone the guilt would eat me up until I confessed - at which point the relationship would be over anyway. I wouldn't expect forgiveness, and I wouldn't give forgiveness. you can't know that. IN some circumstances you are capable of much more than you could otherwise have imagined, and likewise so could the hypothetical lady you have cheated on.
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Post by Mrs H on Jul 18, 2007 11:03:31 GMT -1
See it really does split people (no pun intended) about whether a person can cheat once and never do it again. Jules I think you're right about motive and opportunity. The big question is if you knew you could get away with it would you be the type of person that would? I know if I cheated on someone the guilt would eat me up until I confessed - at which point the relationship would be over anyway. I wouldn't expect forgiveness, and I wouldn't give forgiveness. Ok then is it worse to be a) cheated on because the person just thought they could get away with it and it didn't mean anything? or b) cheated on because the person had fallen in love with someone else?
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Post by Shippers on Jul 18, 2007 11:04:12 GMT -1
that's only if it's in the forrest. So you can cheat in a forrest and no-one will know? I think it's if you cheat in the forrest, and no one finds out, how did you conceal you mossy buttocks from your loved one?
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