Help maybe.

[Dr LuKas]

There’s a person I work with and she keeps staring at me for no apparent reason from time to time. Not all the time, but sometimes she stops completely what she’s doing and stares right at me, not like she wants to talk to me, just don’t know why she does it?
It’s disconcerting to say the least. Annoying as well some times I just want to shout at her, ‘WHAT! WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT!’ but I don’t.
I can’t talk to her about it because I don’t like to make people feel bad. Wonder if you may be able to help though…

Cheers.

[Ninja Squirrel]

In all fairness she could be thinking and staring in to space and not really looking at you.

Or

she wants some funky love!

Or

You could have your shirt poking out your flies

[Dr LuKas]

ninjasquirrelmbe said:

In all fairness she could be thinking and staring in to space and not really looking at you.

Definetly looking at me

Or

she wants some funky love!

I don't think thats it

Or

You could have your shirt poking out your flies

;D thats what I'm afriad of, but what every day? I don't think so. lol

[Billy]

start staring at her and see what she does?

[danthered]

lucasledge said:

There’s a person I work with and she keeps staring at me for no apparent reason from time to time. Not all the time, but sometimes she stops completely what she’s doing and stares right at me, not like she wants to talk to me, just don’t know why she does it?
It’s disconcerting to say the least. Annoying as well some times I just want to shout at her, ‘WHAT! WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT!’ but I don’t.
I can’t talk to her about it because I don’t like to make people feel bad. Wonder if you may be able to help though…

Cheers.

Stop sending her the mucky E Mails then LL

[Dr LuKas]

She's defiently looking at me anyway Ninj because she follows me with her eyes and head if I'm walking about.

I'm afriad to stare back Billy ;D


SHIT she must have been on the wrong address list dan!!

;D

LOL no thats not it either.

[Billy]

ask other people in your office, find out if she stares at them too.
Or get someone to watch when she's doing it so you have proof

[Neko Bazu]

What sort of stare is it, LL? I mean, there can be really focused stares, frowning stares, soft stares, wistful stares, contemplative stares - could mean anything without giving us more info!

[Ninja Squirrel]

lucasledge said:

She's defiently looking at me anyway Ninj because she follows me with her eyes and head if I'm walking about.

I'm afriad to stare back Billy ;D


SHIT she must have been on the wrong address list dan!!

;D

LOL no thats not it either.

Casually ask her if she fancies going for a coffee at lunch time or something

[Dr LuKas]

I don't know it's just like kinda looking at me, sometimes if I'm having a conversation with someone else, she'll look right over like shes being nosey, or if I'm looking at my computer screen, she'll look right at me for a couple of seconds behind my screen but right in front of me. Kinda focused and wistful I think.

[officergroyman]

ninjasquirrelmbe said:

lucasledge said:

She's defiently looking at me anyway Ninj because she follows me with her eyes and head if I'm walking about.

I'm afriad to stare back Billy ;D


SHIT she must have been on the wrong address list dan!!

;D

LOL no thats not it either.

Casually ask her if she fancies going for a coffee at lunch time or something

Or better yet casually walk up to her and say, "So you like what you see gir' ?"

[Dr LuKas]

Erm she's a little to old for me and I'm far from interested.

[Ninja Squirrel]

slap her round the head with a trout

[Neko Bazu]

lucasledge said:

Erm she's a little to old for me and I'm far from interested.

I may be jumping the gun a little here, but at least based on what you're telling us, I'd say she is

[officergroyman]

OR here's a good one I've actually used, it worked perfectly.......

Walk up to her slowly, as she's staring at you. Take your right hand and place it on the top of her head and say, "yep JUST perfect".

She'll ask something like, "what are you talking about?"

Look her straight in the eye's and say, "I was just making sure."

She'll ask something like, "making sure of what exactly?"

Take your hand and raise it to her height, look at it and say, "Well You've gotta be this tall to ride this ride."

Smile & Walk away!!!

[Billy]

PMSL - I'm with Ninj ;D

[officergroyman]

lucasledge said:

Erm she's a little to old for me and I'm far from interested.

Come on man, you gotta hunt Cougars now and then!!!

[CHOPPER READ]

I'm with Billy on this one LL,stare right back at her and see what happens. Make her feel uncomfortable.


Or just stand up and shout at her"STOP FUCKING STARING AT ME YOU PSYCHO BITCH!!!!!!!!"

[Billy]

officergroyman said:

OR here's a good one I've actually used, it worked perfectly.......

Walk up to her slowly, as she's staring at you. Take your right hand and place it on the top of her head and say, "yep JUST perfect".

She'll ask something like, "what are you talking about?"

Look her straight in the eye's and say, "I was just making sure."

She'll ask something like, "making sure of what exactly?"

Take your hand and raise it to her height, look at it and say, "Well You've gotta be this tall to ride this ride."

Smile & Walk away!!!

smoother than a smooth thing on National Smooth Day OG!!

[officergroyman]

bbl said:

officergroyman said:

OR here's a good one I've actually used, it worked perfectly.......

Walk up to her slowly, as she's staring at you. Take your right hand and place it on the top of her head and say, "yep JUST perfect".

She'll ask something like, "what are you talking about?"

Look her straight in the eye's and say, "I was just making sure."

She'll ask something like, "making sure of what exactly?"

Take your hand and raise it to her height, look at it and say, "Well You've gotta be this tall to ride this ride."

Smile & Walk away!!!

smoother than a smooth thing on National Smooth Day OG!!

I didn;tget the nickname Smoothy Smootherson for nuthin' Billy Boy!!!!