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Post by jh1980 on Mar 26, 2007 22:49:00 GMT -1
Where to start? Well I'm sober, and I need to be up early tomorrow, but instead I'm posting here, 'cos I can't really call anyone at this time...and I'm wound up something chronic... First off, Anita is CLEARLY a man. Not physically before anyone says it! Apparently we're not exclusive, though "in fairness" she's not fucking anyone else at the moment. Apparently I'm not more than a friend - although she doesn't shag all her mates. Apparently I have to watch my fucking back if I even want to see her again, because even wanting a date is too much like commitment! What the fuck?! If you don't see someone how the hell are you supposed to even have a chance of developing something?! As I'm tempted to say to her, she's a little old to be so completely commitment-phobic that she gets scared off even by expecting a phone call every now and then?! IF she meant it when she complemented me in all those different ways, why the hell doesn't she want to AT LEAST give me the satisfaction of knowing we're seeing each other, exclusively?! Apart from coming over like a raging bunny boiler now probably (well I know how some of you will think) I'm a really nice, sweet and interesting guy and I deserve a FUCKLOAD better than to be treated like this. If I wanted no-strings sex on a monthly basis I'd pay for it!!! Anyway I can't fucking sleep now 'cos I'm that bothered about the fact I clearly hardly mean shit to her, while she does mean something to me... I'm angry, and hurt, and I can't tell her that or she'll be scared off. Why do I still want her? Why? You tell me why?! I dunno... but I know that I do, even though it's no good for me I daren't even read that back, I'm just going to post it, and sod the consequences, I'm so mad I could happily wrestle a tiger (or some fucking thing)
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Post by jh1980 on Mar 26, 2007 22:52:06 GMT -1
Oh mods etc... if you'd not pull this thread I'd appreciate it, at least give some people who care a chance to read and comment. I'll take out the swearing if I really have to, can't hardly think straight right now tbh...
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Post by HURLOCK on Mar 27, 2007 4:27:11 GMT -1
Mate, you can't make her like you etc., in the way you want her too. However the best thing you can do is move on, I know it's hard - but you'll get over it.
And as you say - she's too old for you.
She sounds like a free spirit, who maybe does not want to settle down etc., she for sure wants to keep her options open!
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 6:27:24 GMT -1
I'm a really nice, sweet and interesting guy and I deserve a FUCKLOAD better than to be treated like this. listen to your own advice mate, she doesnt sound like she is worth the hassle dear god man dont admit that sort of thing...... if you wanted no strings sex you would and could get it! (sounds much better ) go and wrestle your trouser snake and let some of that sexual frustration out NOW!!!!!
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Post by HURLOCK on Mar 27, 2007 6:34:18 GMT -1
Taking up on Stu's point are you saying you only want sex once a month Jules, just treat this as a learning curve and move on. don't ring her again etc., as this is her way of saying 'chill Winston' Move on, there must be another hottie in the office and you never know she may be game on for a bit 'printer room jiggy jiggy'
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Post by Neko Bazu on Mar 27, 2007 7:32:47 GMT -1
Easier said than done, I know, but it sounds like a bit of a lost cause In all honesty, it sounds like she's playing the man-ish 'I'll come to you when I want sex' game, and I've never heard of that leading to much more. You're right; you deserve a lot better. More than that, you can get a lot better - and I honestly hope you do.
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 7:41:23 GMT -1
Taking up on Stu's point are you saying you only want sex once a month indeed sir......young jules has now reaffirmed my fears and admitted he isnt a man, just a butch looking welsh bird with facial hair
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Post by spurrsgirl on Mar 27, 2007 8:52:51 GMT -1
Oh Jules Have to say I agree with Hurls..........move on matey......although I didn't necessarily mean the bit about fun and frolics in the printer room
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 9:01:47 GMT -1
yeah you did you big liar
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Post by spurrsgirl on Mar 27, 2007 9:03:29 GMT -1
yeah you did you big liar as if ! ;D
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Post by Forza's Blind Optimists (CPFC) on Mar 27, 2007 9:04:44 GMT -1
Ah mate i feel for you. All us bloke have been in a position like this before. Or close to it!! My advise to you Jules would be this. Go out with your mates, get completely smashed and shag anything with a pulse, and Female . Works great for me if I've just been canned!
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 9:04:46 GMT -1
sorry your more of a boiler room sort of lady arnt you
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Post by spurrsgirl on Mar 27, 2007 9:12:03 GMT -1
sorry your more of a boiler room sort of lady arnt you Nah, I'm more of a 3 points this sunday kinda lady ;D
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 9:13:33 GMT -1
what a deluded lady? you been hitting your head against a wall again SG? ive told you before its not good for you
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Post by Forza's Blind Optimists (CPFC) on Mar 27, 2007 9:14:26 GMT -1
sorry your more of a boiler room sort of lady arnt you Nah, I'm more of a 3 points this sunday kinda lady ;D 3 points! In one go, you must be insashable!!! ........sorry
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Post by spurrsgirl on Mar 27, 2007 9:14:48 GMT -1
what a deluded lady? you been hitting your head against a wall again SG? ive told you before its not good for you We'll see !! Shall be tuned in to watch and pray for sweet revenge for what went on in November!!
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 9:16:15 GMT -1
Ah mate i feel for you. All us bloke have been in a position like this before. Or close to it!! My advise to you Jules would be this. Go out with your mates, get completely smashed and shag anything with a pulse, and Female . Works great for me if I've just been canned! forza also has a nice suply of the best ladies from all over europe that he can sort for you at a reasonable price ;D
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Post by Giar on Mar 27, 2007 9:17:35 GMT -1
what a deluded lady? you been hitting your head against a wall again SG? ive told you before its not good for you We'll see !! Shall be tuned in to watch and pray for sweet revenge for what went on in November!! i shall be there in person to give your boys some abuse and a hearty laugh once we take another three points off you at the final whistle
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Post by Dr LuKas on Mar 27, 2007 9:22:34 GMT -1
OK Jules hoped you've calmed down mate.
I say fuck her, forget her. You're clearly not right for each other you both want completely different things. She doesn't seem to appreciate you and you're right you don't deserve to be treated like this so end this self esteem sapping, self-destructing relationship now before it gets even more unpleasant for you.
She didn't want an exclusive relationship and you do, there's nothing you can do about it, true she should have made her intentions clear earlier but you can't blame her for wanting a bit of fun although she probably is a little too old to still be playing that game.
'I'm angry, and hurt, and I can't tell her that or she'll be scared off. Why do I still want her? Why? You tell me why?'
You shouldn't want her anymore, she’s no good for you, you don't have to tell her your angry or hurt but do tell her that you want different things and the relationship just isn't working out. Break it off now and you can still have your pride. I know it's hard, something inside you is telling you that you need her but you need to shut that up because it'll only cause more hurt.
Good luck buddy.
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Post by Forza's Blind Optimists (CPFC) on Mar 27, 2007 9:23:31 GMT -1
Ah mate i feel for you. All us bloke have been in a position like this before. Or close to it!! My advise to you Jules would be this. Go out with your mates, get completely smashed and shag anything with a pulse, and Female . Works great for me if I've just been canned! forza also has a nice suply of the best ladies from all over europe that he can sort for you at a reasonable price ;D ha ha ha, i think we could sort him out mate!! ;D
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