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Post by fcredblue on Feb 12, 2007 15:09:36 GMT -1
with all the talk of valentines im sure that there has been a few rejections... tell them now and il tell all of mine...theres a alot few couple
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Post by Neko Bazu on Feb 12, 2007 15:10:48 GMT -1
I've never been rejected... but that might be because I've never been the one doing the asking
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Post by fcredblue on Feb 12, 2007 15:13:16 GMT -1
this is really backfired on me...
well think of the worst ways to be let down and iv had it done to me...
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Post by Neko Bazu on Feb 12, 2007 15:18:30 GMT -1
Someone said, "No, you small-penised, flabby twat" on public radio?!
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Post by fcredblue on Feb 12, 2007 15:21:11 GMT -1
Someone said, "No, you small-penised, flabby twat" on public radio?! i meant by email or text...
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Post by Neko Bazu on Feb 12, 2007 15:25:14 GMT -1
Could've been worse then! ;D
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Post by HURLOCK on Feb 12, 2007 15:34:49 GMT -1
Rejection happens to all of us, still pick yourself up and move on to the next candidate. I dumped a girl my text once - not particulary proud of that!
Still it was not to be!
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Post by gt on Feb 12, 2007 17:05:42 GMT -1
I was dumped by someone I really really liked two years ago 6 days before Valentines Day. The actual night was the longest night of my life, horrible.
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Post by shinny on Feb 12, 2007 17:09:05 GMT -1
i've never really been rejected (i never ask)
my dad walked out on valentines day though... thats why i hate it so much!
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Post by Pete the Wolf on Feb 12, 2007 18:12:59 GMT -1
i've never really been rejected (i never ask) my dad walked out on valentines day though... thats why i hate it so much! Shit, I dunno if any of us can get any worse than that. Personally I've experienced three rejections, four if you count this becoming very confusing in the middle of a relationship. Said it all really that we split by text. Not that I wanted to. Tried to call her up (long distance), no reply, then get a text asking me if something was wrong as I'd tried calling. Kept trying to say I wanted to TALK to her, finally she texts me asking me if it's to end things. What choice do you have except to split by text after that?
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Post by shinny on Feb 12, 2007 18:14:26 GMT -1
it's not so bad!
that kinda sucks though
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Post by Tiffie on Feb 12, 2007 18:23:53 GMT -1
The only rejection that's ever hurt me was when one of my best friends rejected me. He tried the, "you're good, but not good enough" thing, giving me all this crap about how "if so-and-so weren't in the picture, things would be different between us" and all that. What really gets me though, is that when particular so-and-so broke his heart, I was there for him, and he up and went for someone else and all but slept with her right in front of me (You know, when you walk into their room and see her panties all about, you know something's gone on, even if they deny it ) Mind, I am still friends with him, but this whole week makes me want to castrate him and feed him his bits, because it really broke my heart. In fact, he ruined my faith in men in general. So, yes.
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Post by Dr LuKas on Feb 12, 2007 18:27:49 GMT -1
I'm sorry for you Tiffie I know it hurts, you're probably better without those kind of people.
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Post by Tiffie on Feb 12, 2007 18:32:29 GMT -1
Thanks~ I just seem to attract those sorts of guys, Oh, the stories I've got...
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Post by Dr LuKas on Feb 12, 2007 18:36:06 GMT -1
Best to try and focus on the good, the funky. That makes you smile thinking about it, rather than cry. 'They call me the funk, I won't do you no harm, I think I'll be good to you.' The funk is the big pill and the bigger the headache the bigger the pill.
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Post by Tiffie on Feb 12, 2007 18:38:24 GMT -1
Easier said than done, I'm afraid...but I'll give it a try! ;D
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Post by Dr LuKas on Feb 12, 2007 18:42:22 GMT -1
Yeah, you've gotta give it a try, thats the first step, it works trust me, I wasn't always this funky you know.
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Post by Tiffie on Feb 12, 2007 18:45:15 GMT -1
Oh, don't make me imagine you less funky! That's just too horrible a thought... I've taken the first step several times, but I always backslide for one reason or another
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Post by fcredblue on Feb 12, 2007 18:47:01 GMT -1
iv been dumped only about 3 days before i could have got a box tickets to see palace vs leeds
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Post by Dr LuKas on Feb 12, 2007 18:51:07 GMT -1
Oh, don't make me imagine you less funky! That's just too horrible a thought... I've taken the first step several times, but I always backslide for one reason or another ;D I was only a tiny bit less funky, but never looked back since. You're only as happy as you want to be Tiffie, if you want to feel good enough you have control over that. You have to be positive, have to think about the bright side and eventually you'll feel lighter and better. Humour helps a lot too, remember that you can control how you feel don't let anything else control you. Let the funk breath through.
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