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Post by Rulesaints on Nov 2, 2007 15:38:20 GMT -1
Sounds like a O.N.S to me.
Just give her some time to cool off and as Hurls says maybe send her her fav flowers
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 15:38:23 GMT -1
Very much so. If it was a drunken mistake compared to a premeditated relationship! could argue, if he didn't know what he was doing then it's worst. Because your barriers come down and your the real deal when your're shit faced. I don't think what your saying is wrong, but you just can't cushion this in any way.
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Post by C@V on Nov 2, 2007 15:39:38 GMT -1
Very much so. If it was a drunken mistake compared to a premeditated relationship! could argue, if he didn't know what he was doing then it's worst. Because your barriers come down and your the real deal when your're shit faced. I don't think what your saying is wrong, but you just can't cushion this in any way. But the advice he seeks very much depends on the circumstances of the betrayal.
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 15:43:35 GMT -1
But the advice he seeks very much depends on the circumstances of the betrayal. Ok, but me thinks he should just let the land lay a bit and then simply take the roasting and be as economical with the truth as possible. Your man has probably done this quite close to home to be caught!
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 15:47:10 GMT -1
Sorry OG, I'm not here to judge but using drink as an excuse does not wash I'm afraid. You knew what you were doing but you were probably so in the moment you let it control you instead of you controlling it. Think with your dick and it often leads to looking like one. Thats not to say I'm not sorry for you because thats a real crap situation to be in and I'd hate to think you lose your potential soul mate for one fuck up but we all know the rules eh. You made your bed, she's the one calling the shots now, you really are gonna have to give her space, let her chill and calm down. If she loves you enough, she'll be prepared to listen and talk to you again.
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 15:52:11 GMT -1
thats quite sanctimonious Lee, not really what he's looking for!
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 15:57:47 GMT -1
thats quite sanctimonious Lee, not really what he's looking for! No disrespect to OG because he's a good chap Hurls, but being sympathetic regarding the situation is a bit of a cop out mate. Maybe I'm speaking from experience but cheating is cheating. I don't think its fair to blame alcohol, I never have but maybe its just my opinion. Hopefully, she gives him a chance and they can patch things up because its obvious he's realised what he's done and she's the one for him but sometimes in life, you only get one chance and if you fuck it, your relying on your fate being decided in someone else's hands. Ball's in her court now, he's gonna have to play the waiting game. Must admit, sounds harsh reading back what I've said but you got to be cruel to be kind.
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 16:04:30 GMT -1
Look mate we all make mistakes, I'm not saying this sort of behavior is to be condoned. Drink you're right is not the excuse to use, even if it's the reason because as I said in a previous post your barriers are down when pissed and you are who you are - women know this!
Personally I think if she loves him she'll forgive, but she won't forget.
Also OG should ask himself how did he feel before he got caught!
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 16:08:44 GMT -1
Personally I think if she loves him she'll forgive, but she won't forget. Also OG should ask himself how did he feel before he got caught! I think your right. If she does love him she'll at least hear him out. He has to leave her alone though because the last person she wants to see or hear from is him right now. I suspect he was probably feeling guilty but because he wasn't caught out, part of him thought he might just get away with it and forget it ever happened. These things always come out though. Something I'd ask OG is whether he had any plans to tell her the truth anyway, even if she didn't find out for herself?
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 16:11:45 GMT -1
Anyways what do you know, you support dirty Leeds! The cheats of football ;D
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 16:14:17 GMT -1
Anyways what do you know, you support dirty Leeds! The cheats of football ;D Yeah, an UNBEATEN dirty Leeds thankyou! Just a shame we didn't put 6 past you pikey thugs eh!
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 16:18:15 GMT -1
Yeah, an UNBEATEN dirty Leeds thankyou! Just a shame we didn't put 6 past you pikey thugs eh! Whatever saw the highlights and the first two goals where weak, poor defending on our part. Pidgeley should be shot! We cam back and where the better side in the second half! Fucks sake man, even gypos are more affluent than the folk of Leeds. So yo should kiss their boots
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Post by CmonYouSpurs on Nov 2, 2007 16:19:02 GMT -1
wondered when this would go off topic ;D
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 16:20:25 GMT -1
wondered when this would go off topic ;D the folk of Leeds should drink some tea ;D
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Post by CHOPPER READ on Nov 2, 2007 16:23:57 GMT -1
Can't stop laughing at Hurls and Cav sounding like that Dr Hilary bloke.
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Post by HURLOCK on Nov 2, 2007 16:26:40 GMT -1
Can't stop laughing at Hurls and Cav sounding like that Dr Hilary bloke. You've made me laugh there mate, maybe he should have just got a blow job. that does not count as cheeting in America ;D
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 16:26:45 GMT -1
Yeah, an UNBEATEN dirty Leeds thankyou! Just a shame we didn't put 6 past you pikey thugs eh! Whatever saw the highlights and the first two goals where weak, poor defending on our part. Pidgeley should be shot! We cam back and where the better side in the second half! Fucks sake man, even gypos are more affluent than the folk of Leeds. So yo should kiss their boots What did the scoreboard say Hurls? ;D
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Post by mortontheblade on Nov 2, 2007 16:27:05 GMT -1
so anyway....
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Post by Tony Yeboah's Lunchbox on Nov 2, 2007 16:28:29 GMT -1
Can't stop laughing at Hurls and Cav sounding like that Dr Hilary bloke. You've made me laugh there mate, maybe he should have just got a blow job. that does not count as cheeting in America ;D Hilary Clinton for president then?
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Post by CHOPPER READ on Nov 2, 2007 16:29:13 GMT -1
Can't stop laughing at Hurls and Cav sounding like that Dr Hilary bloke. You've made me laugh there mate, maybe he should have just got a blow job. that does not count as cheeting in America ;D Having led a blameless life i don't think i am qualified to give advice on such a situation.
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