Goalposts for Jumpers
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Posting on message boards is a lot like making love to a beautiful woman.....
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Post by Goalposts for Jumpers on Dec 16, 2006 0:44:23 GMT -1
Right. As some of you might know I recently came out of a very long term relatioship (10 years) and tonight, I got hit on by a woman for the first time for years. Now, the question is; I like her as a mate and I am REALLY not ready for any new relationship, but she is flirting with me like mad and basically propostioning me so do I go for it with her and risk blowing a friendship or carry on being 'honourable'? I have no idea what to do...... I've not had the chance to chat to you previously but I've just ended a 14 year marriage to be with someone else. Although I take no pride in saying that, I left my missus for the right reasons and for the right person. I'm insanely happy right now - I cannot begin to think how miserable I'd have become if I hadn't taken the plunge with the other woman. Sometimes, you just have to go with the flow - you never know how it'll work out - but to do nothing might leave you regretting doing nothing for years to come. Good luck fella.
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Post by Golden_Boy™ on Dec 16, 2006 0:46:55 GMT -1
Follow your heart man, follow your heart. you can't buy this advice ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png)
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Post by Neko Bazu on Dec 16, 2006 8:16:55 GMT -1
In truth, I was in the same boat and went for it. I am now very happy, though it's only been 5 months so obviously it's early days.
As GB said, listen to what you feel - only you know exactly what's going in inside, and that's where you'll find the proper answer. Can you honestly say yes? Can you totally reject no? Flip a coin; if it comes up 'no', are you disappointed? If it says 'yes', do you find yourself saying "Best two of three"?
You have to trust your own judgement mate - hardly the easiest thing in the world to do, but it's the right thing to do.
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Post by Remember Jesus on Dec 16, 2006 8:20:39 GMT -1
Love is not an exact science. But when you find the right one you will know. You have to work hard at relationships and you both need to want it to work.
Been with my wife nearly 23 years - married nearly 12.
And its still as fresh as the first day.
Good luck fella.
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