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Post by Mrs H on Sept 10, 2007 13:08:54 GMT -1
Ahhh but would you want to speak to a woman as much if you didn't want to search her cave with your womb ferret? Tis a personal matter I guess, I mean, between 2 people. I do have female friends I don't fancy, funnily enough! But whether I want to see or speak to them as much as those I do feel something for... that's a tricky one! Also of course it depends whether the feeling is mutual I reckon? Let's face it where the feeling is mutual, things usually happen unless constrained by marriage, or existing non-married partners... though sometimes even then it doesn't... but *fetches shovel* I think there has to be some sort of chemistry amongst people to be attracted to each other even in a freindship way. There has to be chemitry and a connection between a friend who stimulates you mentally.
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:09:12 GMT -1
Oh and as an afterthought, male desire is a little more complex than "must penetrate woman!"
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Post by Fizzy Bread on Sept 10, 2007 13:10:06 GMT -1
Oohh this is getting too serious! We've just had a free meal courtesy of my cousin at Jaspers, where he is the manager Feel a bit ill now though but twas a lovely meal, gorgeous choccy puddnig.
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Post by Mrs H on Sept 10, 2007 13:10:32 GMT -1
Well that's the When Harry met Sally debate isn't it? Can a man be a friend with a woman or does the sex always get in the way? Haha!! Never seems to in my case luvvie!! Awwwww poor Travis. Aren't there any obliging girls in Leeds? I have been out many times in Leeds and there ALWAYS seems to be very obliging girls, quite a lot of the time in public!!! ;D
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:14:15 GMT -1
I think there has to be some sort of chemistry amongst people to be attracted to each other even in a freindship way. There has to be chemitry and a connection between a friend who stimulates you mentally. That's kinda a nice thought, though the temptation to say "Mrs H, are you trying to seduce me?!" is irresistible... so I won't resist lol! More seriously though surely there've been situations where friends have tried to cross that line between friendship and relationship with you, and you've realised that there *just isn't that spark* ?! And sometimes that makes friendship easier... maybe. And I am certain I know women who I've been friends with who I DEFINITELY wouldn't want to get physical with! Sadly I'm sure that in other cases some women would say that about me... *whistles*
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:15:06 GMT -1
Oohh this is getting too serious! We've just had a free meal courtesy of my cousin at Jaspers, where he is the manager Feel a bit ill now though but twas a lovely meal, gorgeous choccy puddnig. Oh hullo! I think it's fascinating! But you don't have to join in... Sounds "bloody good"
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Post by Travis on Sept 10, 2007 13:24:32 GMT -1
Haha!! Never seems to in my case luvvie!! Awwwww poor Travis. Aren't there any obliging girls in Leeds? I have been out many times in Leeds and there ALWAYS seems to be very obliging girls, quite a lot of the time in public!!! ;D You obviously know the places to go Laura!! Not sure that many of the 'obliging' ones out there are the very same ones who many would feel obliged to avoid. I do hear that the areas in the immediate vicinity of curry house windows are promising hunting grounds though! ;D
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:28:03 GMT -1
Not sure that many of the 'obliging' ones out there are the very same ones who many would feel obliged to avoid. I do hear that the areas in the immediate vicinity of curry house windows are promising hunting grounds though! ;D Awww, Trav! She was trying to be helpful! I think it's time to pull out the "Low Blow" card! ;D (makes me wince seeing that face...!)
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Post by Travis on Sept 10, 2007 13:32:34 GMT -1
Not sure that many of the 'obliging' ones out there are the very same ones who many would feel obliged to avoid. I do hear that the areas in the immediate vicinity of curry house windows are promising hunting grounds though! ;D Awww, Trav! She was trying to be helpful! I think it's time to pull out the "Low Blow" card! ;D (makes me wince seeing that face...!) ;D You know Laura...... face of an angel, heart of gold, thick skin of a rhino! Probably a good job that I have to log out now....
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 10, 2007 13:32:58 GMT -1
So, to haul this thread back to its Hong Kong theme... Seen many 'obliging ladies' in HK, Spozz? ;D I'm sure the answer to this question will affect whether Jules, Hurls, Trav et al are likely to visit in the future or not, so consider carefully!
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Post by Mrs H on Sept 10, 2007 13:35:41 GMT -1
Bloody power cut So Travis think I'm the hooker with the heart of gold and Jules still thinks I'm trying to seduce him!
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:37:18 GMT -1
So, to haul this thread back to its Hong Kong theme... Seen many 'obliging ladies' in HK, Spozz? ;D I'm the answer to this question will affect whether Jules, Hurls, Trav et al are likely to visit in the future or not, so consider carefully! Why visit when there's a "mail order" option? ;D And "ooh, you bitch!"
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:38:04 GMT -1
Jules still thinks I'm trying to seduce him! Only in my dreams babe...!
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 10, 2007 13:40:39 GMT -1
So, to haul this thread back to its Hong Kong theme... Seen many 'obliging ladies' in HK, Spozz? ;D I'm the answer to this question will affect whether Jules, Hurls, Trav et al are likely to visit in the future or not, so consider carefully! Why visit when there's a "mail order" option? ;D And "ooh, you bitch!" *clawing motions* ;D
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Post by Mrs H on Sept 10, 2007 13:43:56 GMT -1
Jules still thinks I'm trying to seduce him! Only in my dreams babe...! Does this mean we're not really friends? ;D
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:46:37 GMT -1
Why visit when there's a "mail order" option? ;D And "ooh, you bitch!" *clawing motions* ;D ;D
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 13:47:47 GMT -1
Only in my dreams babe...! Does this mean we're not really friends? ;D Eh?! I don't know! I was mostly talking in the abstract...!
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Post by Mrs H on Sept 10, 2007 13:53:05 GMT -1
Does this mean we're not really friends? ;D Eh?! I don't know! I was mostly talking in the abstract...! You can get very good tablets for talking in the abstract....one for a cure and one to cause it! ;D
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 10, 2007 13:53:39 GMT -1
[obscenely large catfight image here] ;D Well, if it's a cat fight you want, I'm bringing my Cat! ;D
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Post by jh1980 on Sept 10, 2007 14:01:44 GMT -1
You can get very good tablets for talking in the abstract....one for a cure and one to cause it! ;D ;D Are they large and purple, with polka dots?!
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