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Post by El Morto La Hoja! on Sept 2, 2009 14:31:59 GMT -1
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 15:35:12 GMT -1
NEKO STOLE THE POSITIVITY!! If she's bitching about you, it means one way or another she still cares... Doesn't seem like it!
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 15:36:20 GMT -1
Oh I know what you mean, it's not the same scenario, but nevertheless, needed someone to bitch to about her. It's the third time she's done it now, and she is just creating enemies. I maintained I would be happy to remain friends and amicable, but she's making it mighty hard to do so. I do believe this is the final straw. Hell hath no fury...and all that gubbins. If you 'got rid' of her as you say she's only reacting to you chucking her. I did it all in the nicest possible way, I was nice about everything, and I have been pleasant with her since. I was honest with her, and have been nothing but a gentleman, yet she's gone and been a complete knob. She's got another bloke now anyway, so I don't see why she is doing it.
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 15:37:48 GMT -1
Hell hath no fury...and all that gubbins. If you 'got rid' of her as you say she's only reacting to you chucking her. Yeah! Also depends how you did it too. My best friend's boyfriend broke up with her a couple of weeks ago on the phone! Tit. I was honest, told her the full story, whilst we were both sat in my car when I was dropping her home after work. I don't think I could have done it any nicer.
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Post by El Morto La Hoja! on Sept 2, 2009 15:46:21 GMT -1
NEKO STOLE THE POSITIVITY!! If she's bitching about you, it means one way or another she still cares... Doesn't seem like it! why is she talking about you then...
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 2, 2009 16:13:17 GMT -1
I kind of agree with Mort, actually... I mean, if she's taking the time to specifically go out of her way to bitch about you, you're obviously still on her mind a lot. If you were the one who ended it, then that's not surprising - having always been the one getting dumped, I know very well it doesn't just go overnight!
Whether you're on her mind in a good way or not remains to be seen - but the fact remains you're there, which is what I think Mortimer was getting at...
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 18:35:52 GMT -1
Well she can just go away! Fair enough maybe she isn't getting over it too well, but it doesn't mean she has to be a complete cow about it all. Plus if I am still on her mind, then she isn't going the right way about winning me back (not that she ever will, but I'm just trying to prove a point).
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Post by Lollipop on Sept 2, 2009 18:38:56 GMT -1
Was she a bit of a bunny boiler Sounds like she was really into you so is upset about you splitting with her...and gone and got a rebound (maybe to try and make you jealous?). Girls are odd, huh?
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Post by El Morto La Hoja! on Sept 2, 2009 18:41:36 GMT -1
you're all freaks
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Post by CHOPPER READ on Sept 2, 2009 18:41:58 GMT -1
Well she can just go away! Fair enough maybe she isn't getting over it too well, but it doesn't mean she has to be a complete cow about it all. Plus if I am still on her mind, then she isn't going the right way about winning me back (not that she ever will, but I'm just trying to prove a point). Make her gape before you dump her.
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 18:45:50 GMT -1
Was she a bit of a bunny boiler Sounds like she was really into you so is upset about you splitting with her...and gone and got a rebound (maybe to try and make you jealous?). Girls are odd, huh? I wouldn't be surprised Jen! We were only together five weeks, it's not like it had been a long-term relationship at all! She got *way* too attached and clingy. She can go on the rebound all she wants, I am getting with another girl in a couple of weeks so that'll soon help her get over it! *Very* odd Jen!
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 2, 2009 19:03:20 GMT -1
Was she a bit of a bunny boiler Sounds like she was really into you so is upset about you splitting with her...and gone and got a rebound (maybe to try and make you jealous?). Girls are odd, huh? I wouldn't be surprised Jen! We were only together five weeks, it's not like it had been a long-term relationship at all! She got *way* too attached and clingy. She can go on the rebound all she wants, I am getting with another girl in a couple of weeks so that'll soon help her get over it! *Very* odd Jen! ...so you're at least allowing time for the sheets to go cold?
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 22:04:13 GMT -1
I wouldn't be surprised Jen! We were only together five weeks, it's not like it had been a long-term relationship at all! She got *way* too attached and clingy. She can go on the rebound all she wants, I am getting with another girl in a couple of weeks so that'll soon help her get over it! *Very* odd Jen! ...so you're at least allowing time for the sheets to go cold? Well it's been a couple of weeks, plus the girl I am going to get with is on holiday for three weeks, so hopefully it'll have calmed down by then. (It doesn't help that my ex hates this girl does it? ) But yeah, me and this girl have liked each other for a while (even before my ex came onto the scene), and not known of each other's attraction, until she texted me a few days after the start of the relationship saying she was gutted I'd got with my ex at the time (although she did claim to be drunk when she sent it), so I made an enquiry a few days later, had it confirmed, and it should hopefully all go well when she's home!
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 2, 2009 22:06:49 GMT -1
Well, I hope yours works out better than mine looks to be!
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Post by Alex on Sept 2, 2009 22:07:14 GMT -1
Has it taken another turn Neko?
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Post by Neko Bazu on Sept 2, 2009 23:10:13 GMT -1
Has it taken another turn Neko? It's not exactly looking great, let's put it that way. Not gonna give up yet, though. If she tells me outright that she's not interested, I'll take the hint, but 'til then, I'm just gonna keep in mind that some things are worth fighting for
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Post by Mrs H on Sept 3, 2009 9:17:56 GMT -1
...so you're at least allowing time for the sheets to go cold? Well it's been a couple of weeks, plus the girl I am going to get with is on holiday for three weeks, so hopefully it'll have calmed down by then. (It doesn't help that my ex hates this girl does it? ) But yeah, me and this girl have liked each other for a while (even before my ex came onto the scene), and not known of each other's attraction, until she texted me a few days after the start of the relationship saying she was gutted I'd got with my ex at the time (although she did claim to be drunk when she sent it), so I made an enquiry a few days later, had it confirmed, and it should hopefully all go well when she's home! Ah so now it all comes out. So you still went out with your ex for weeks after even though you liked someone else? I know you said you were gentlemanly about it but it sounds like you did string this girl on a little.
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Post by Alex on Sept 3, 2009 11:22:52 GMT -1
Well it's been a couple of weeks, plus the girl I am going to get with is on holiday for three weeks, so hopefully it'll have calmed down by then. (It doesn't help that my ex hates this girl does it? ) But yeah, me and this girl have liked each other for a while (even before my ex came onto the scene), and not known of each other's attraction, until she texted me a few days after the start of the relationship saying she was gutted I'd got with my ex at the time (although she did claim to be drunk when she sent it), so I made an enquiry a few days later, had it confirmed, and it should hopefully all go well when she's home! Ah so now it all comes out. So you still went out with your ex for weeks after even though you liked someone else? I know you said you were gentlemanly about it but it sounds like you did string this girl on a little. Because at the time I indeed liked my ex too obviously, otherwise I wouldn't have 'stringed her along' as you put it. I saw no reason to end the relationship at that stage, when I still liked my ex. It was only when my ex started being horrible towards my friends, for no reason may I add, as well as the girl in question, when these people had done nothing wrong, when I got pissed off and ended it. Even if I hadn't received said text, had things panned out the same way I would have still ended it. I wouldn't have minded her not getting along with my friends, that's life, but when she started getting personal when it was uncalled for, I wasn't having that. The fact that I like this girl, and she likes me, was wholly independent to the situation, and had no effect. The only thing that has happened is that I am now going to be happier when getting with this girl when she gets home from holiday, rather than being stuck with my ex. I'll reiterate, the reason for splitting was not linked to the other girl. It was my ex's own doing.
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Post by Alex on Sept 3, 2009 11:23:30 GMT -1
Has it taken another turn Neko? It's not exactly looking great, let's put it that way. Not gonna give up yet, though. If she tells me outright that she's not interested, I'll take the hint, but 'til then, I'm just gonna keep in mind that some things are worth fighting for Aye there's always hope until she flat-out says "No" eh.
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Post by El Morto La Hoja! on Sept 3, 2009 11:24:41 GMT -1
the women of 606 are out for your blood, alex.... a girl's fault she was dumped?
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