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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 9:45:13 GMT -1
You mentioned his bi-ness 'Tis street for "Business" You popped up suddenly dearie, in that "as if by magic, the shopkeeper appeared" sort of way?! Been teaching myself stuff.
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Post by C@V on Dec 12, 2007 9:46:01 GMT -1
'Tis street for "Business" You popped up suddenly dearie, in that "as if by magic, the shopkeeper appeared" sort of way?! Been teaching myself stuff. Brains as well as beauty! **Falls off chair**
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 9:47:16 GMT -1
Been teaching myself stuff. Brains as well as beauty! **Falls off chair** You should know that already my gorgeous bundle of love!
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 9:47:24 GMT -1
You popped up suddenly dearie, in that "as if by magic, the shopkeeper appeared" sort of way?! Been teaching myself stuff. Good stuff? How to make the perfect Wombat soufflé?
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 9:49:49 GMT -1
Been teaching myself stuff. Good stuff? How to make the perfect Wombat soufflé? You don't cook wombats They're for hugging a squeezing and calling George!!!!! Been teaching myself nerdy computer stuff.
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 9:55:20 GMT -1
How to make the perfect Wombat soufflé? You don't cook wombats They're for hugging a squeezing and calling George!!!!! Been teaching myself nerdy computer stuff. It's a good thing I've got you here to tell me what not to cook, I had a scary moment with a Packrat earlier... Hehehe, Queen Nerdula!
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 9:58:25 GMT -1
You don't cook wombats They're for hugging a squeezing and calling George!!!!! Been teaching myself nerdy computer stuff. It's a good thing I've got you here to tell me what not to cook, I had a scary moment with a Packrat earlier... Hehehe, Queen Nerdula! Don't mock me....traffic nerd!
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 10:01:01 GMT -1
Don't mock me....traffic nerd! Wasn't mocking you... was affectionate! See who goes straight for the claws! See how she repays me! PS: you do know I have LITTLE interest in Traffic, don't you?!
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 10:04:35 GMT -1
Don't mock me....traffic nerd! Wasn't mocking you... was affectionate! See who goes straight for the claws! See how she repays me! PS: you do know I have LITTLE interest in Traffic, don't you?! Awww always the victim aren't you Julian? Yes I realise you have little interest in traffic but you won't get off your arse and become the English Language lecturer you were obviously born to be!
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 10:11:48 GMT -1
Awww always the victim aren't you Julian? Yes I realise you have little interest in traffic but you won't get off your arse and become the English Language lecturer you were obviously born to be! No... but then I worry too much about whether you mean that?! Then next thing you'll be telling me to grow some balls, I can't win with you Being bothered what - specifically YOU think of me only makes me appear more of a wretched little man. Go Jules Yes, yes... it's actually quite hard realising you could do virtually anything, but very little really interests you!
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 10:19:29 GMT -1
Awww always the victim aren't you Julian? Yes I realise you have little interest in traffic but you won't get off your arse and become the English Language lecturer you were obviously born to be! No... but then I worry too much about whether you mean that?! Then next thing you'll be telling me to grow some balls, I can't win with you Being bothered what - specifically YOU think of me only makes me appear more of a wretched little man. Go Jules Yes, yes... it's actually quite hard realising you could do virtually anything, but very little really interests you! It really shouldn't matter what I think but if I'm being honest (blunt being my speciality) you do need to grow thicker skin. Yes we take the piss out of you on here and sometimes unfairly but if truth be told I think you prefer that to being ignored!
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Post by thales on Dec 12, 2007 10:22:09 GMT -1
Good stuff? How to make the perfect Wombat soufflé? You don't cook wombats They're for hugging a squeezing and calling George!!!!! Been teaching myself nerdy computer stuff. what you learn then?
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 10:30:42 GMT -1
It really shouldn't matter what I think but if I'm being honest (blunt being my speciality) you do need to grow thicker skin. Yes we take the piss out of you on here and sometimes unfairly but if truth be told I think you prefer that to being ignored! Oh, I'm aware that it "shouldn't" Yes I know I can be ridiculously oversensitive but then I didn't get the shit bullied out of me until I grew a thicker skin, when I was a sprog I fought back. I then realised that violence wasn't the answer and ignored what people said. Then people mostly grew up. Being blunt - which I like, it's a good quality! Indeed it's sometimes unfair, but at least with most people there's some balance. I don't want to be ignored, sure, but I come on here like most of the rest of us cos I'm bored shiteless with this job, and posting here is an easier distraction than sorting my sub-optimal life out!
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Post by thales on Dec 12, 2007 10:35:12 GMT -1
hmmmm ignore or slag *tossescoin*
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 10:38:28 GMT -1
It really shouldn't matter what I think but if I'm being honest (blunt being my speciality) you do need to grow thicker skin. Yes we take the piss out of you on here and sometimes unfairly but if truth be told I think you prefer that to being ignored! Oh, I'm aware that it "shouldn't" Yes I know I can be ridiculously oversensitive but then I didn't get the shit bullied out of me until I grew a thicker skin, when I was a sprog I fought back. I then realised that violence wasn't the answer and ignored what people said. Then people mostly grew up. Being blunt - which I like, it's a good quality! Indeed it's sometimes unfair, but at least with most people there's some balance. I don't want to be ignored, sure, but I come on here like most of the rest of us cos I'm bored shiteless with this job, and posting here is an easier distraction than sorting my sub-optimal life out! Then you must have had very thin skin to start with Jules if this is you with thicker skin! I was badly bullied too at school so much so that I missed a good 6 months of Year 9 through illness and stress. What I came to realise after that was everyone has their major flaws and if they treat others badly then one day they will get their comuppance. It's pretty much true for those that did bully me. They've got about 14 kids and unhappily work in Boots now. I get the feeling that you haven't quite found a way to deal with conflict in your head and that's why sometimes you lash out and sometimes you retreat into yourself.
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 10:46:48 GMT -1
Then you must have had very thin skin to start with Jules if this is you with thicker skin! I was badly bullied too at school so much so that I missed a good 6 months of Year 9 through illness and stress. What I came to realise after that was everyone has their major flaws and if they treat others badly then one day they will get their comuppance. It's pretty much true for those that did bully me. They've got about 14 kids and unhappily work in Boots now. I get the feeling that you haven't quite found a way to deal with conflict in your head and that's why sometimes you lash out and sometimes you retreat into yourself. No, sorry, used the wrong subordinate clause or whatever - I was saying: "I wasn't bullied to the point where I grew a thicker skin" - meaning I didn't grow a thick skin, and wasn't bullied! (not much) I knew you were bullied, you'd mentioned it before, though I didn't know until now how badly you meant. It is because I'm sensitive that hearing things like that touch me instead of washing over me, and I think that's a good thing! I thought you believed in the goodness of humanity? Tis useful for a leftie I can't deny a sense of schadenfreude towards those who tormented you, given that fact. You'd be a very good person not to feel that way yourself! Maybe... I don't really know. I've never taken criticism particularly well, perhaps because I've never got used to it. It is possible to explain many things with psychology
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 10:53:35 GMT -1
Not a fan of psychology are you? Tends to be those that have the problems that don't!
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Post by jh1980 on Dec 12, 2007 10:56:57 GMT -1
Not a fan of psychology are you? Tends to be those that have the problems that don't! Oh come on, if it's worth bothering with, I thought we were getting somewhere there?! No I just have a minor distrust of all things clinical. Forgive my crepe-thin skin but I don't believe I have problems, and the idea rarely occurs to me until I get independent opinion on the matter!
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Post by C@V on Dec 12, 2007 10:58:19 GMT -1
Julian tell me about your father! ;D
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Post by Mrs H on Dec 12, 2007 10:59:39 GMT -1
Not a fan of psychology are you? Tends to be those that have the problems that don't! Oh come on, if it's worth bothering with, I thought we were getting somewhere there?! No I just have a minor distrust of all things clinical. Forgive my crepe-thin skin but I don't believe I have problems, and the idea rarely occurs to me until I get independent opinion on the matter! Do you believe that you don't have issues with women and realtionships???
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